The Hidden Muscles That Control Everything (And Why Yours Are Weak)

What Is Your Pelvic Floor?

Your pelvic floor is a hammock of muscles stretching from your pubic bone to your tailbone. Think of it as the foundation of your core - except instead of supporting your posture, it controls some of your most critical functions.

These muscles control:

  • When you pee (and when you don't)
  • How firm your erections are
  • When you ejaculate
  • Whether you leak when you sneeze, cough, or laugh
  • Whether you can "hold it" until you find a bathroom

Here's the problem: Unlike your biceps or abs, you can't see your pelvic floor. You probably didn't even know it existed until something went wrong.

And because you can't see it, you never trained it.

How Your Pelvic Floor Controls Your Bladder

Think of your bladder like a water balloon. At the bottom is a valve (your urethral sphincter) that keeps everything inside.

Your pelvic floor muscles wrap around this valve like a support system.

When these muscles are strong:

  • They squeeze the urethra shut when you cough, sneeze, or laugh
  • They give you warning time - you feel the urge and can hold it for 30+ minutes
  • They prevent "dribbling" after you've finished peeing
  • They let you empty your bladder completely in one go

When these muscles are weak:

  • Any sudden pressure (sneeze, cough, laugh, jump) overpowers the valve
  • Urine leaks out before you can stop it
  • You feel sudden, urgent needs with almost no warning
  • You dribble after you think you're done
  • You wake up multiple times at night to pee

This is called stress incontinence - and it's not about aging. It's about untrained muscles.

The fix? Strengthen the muscles that squeeze the valve shut. Train them to respond automatically when pressure hits.

How Your Pelvic Floor Controls Ejaculation

Your pelvic floor doesn't just control urine. It controls the entire ejaculatory process.

Here's what happens during ejaculation:

  1. Arousal builds - your pelvic floor muscles start to tense
  2. You reach the point of no return - rhythmic contractions begin in your pelvic floor
  3. Ejaculation occurs - those contractions push semen through the urethra

The critical part: Those pelvic floor muscles control WHEN step 2 happens.

With weak pelvic floor muscles:

  • You have no control over the contractions
  • They trigger automatically, often within 30-60 seconds
  • You can't stop them once they start
  • You finish before you or your partner want you to

With strong pelvic floor muscles:

  • You can feel the build-up earlier
  • You can actively STOP the contractions from starting
  • You control the timing - 3 minutes, 5 minutes, 10 minutes
  • You decide when to finish, not your body

Think of it like this:

Weak pelvic floor = automatic trigger with no safety
Strong pelvic floor = you control the trigger

The science backs this up:

A 2014 study found that 82.5% of men with lifelong premature ejaculation gained control after 12 weeks of pelvic floor training. They went from under 60 seconds to an average of 146 seconds - nearly 2.5 minutes.

Not by using numbing creams. Not by thinking about baseball. By training the exact muscles that control ejaculation.

How Your Pelvic Floor Controls Erection Quality

Here's something most men don't know: Your pelvic floor plays a direct role in how hard your erections are.

Two key muscles are involved:

  1. The Bulbocavernosus (BC) muscle - wraps around the base of your penis
  2. The Ischiocavernosus (IC) muscle - runs along the sides

What these muscles do:

  • They compress veins that would normally let blood flow OUT of your penis
  • This traps blood inside the erectile tissue
  • More trapped blood = firmer, fuller erection
  • They also help pump blood INTO the penis during arousal

With weak pelvic floor muscles:

  • Blood flows in but also flows back out too easily
  • You get hard but can't stay fully hard
  • You lose firmness mid-session
  • Your erections feel "soft" even when aroused

With strong pelvic floor muscles:

  • Blood gets trapped more effectively
  • Erections are firmer and fuller
  • You maintain hardness throughout sex
  • Your erections feel like they did when you were younger

This is why Kegel exercises improve erectile function - you're literally training the muscles that trap blood in your penis.

Studies show men who do pelvic floor exercises for 6 months see significant improvements in erection firmness - often comparable to low-dose medication, but without side effects.

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Enduro™ 2.0 Pelvic Floor Trainer by BHE

Enduro™ 2.0 Pelvic Floor Trainer by BHE

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From 30 Seconds of Shame to Minutes of Confidence

What you'll experience:

✓ Control when you finish instead of your body controlling you
✓ Satisfy your partner without the crushing shame
✓ Stop avoiding intimacy out of fear
✓ Last 3-5x longer than you do now
✓ Feel like a man again instead of a failure
✓ See respect (not disappointment) in their eyes

The transformation:

Week 1-2: You start feeling the muscles you never knew existed
Week 3-4: You notice you can pause, breathe, control
Week 6-8: You last minutes, not seconds. The shame lifts.
Week 12: 82% of men achieve full control. You could be one of them.

No More Leaks. No More Pads. No More Planning Your Day Around Bathrooms.

What you'll experience:

✓ Stop worrying before every sneeze, cough, or laugh
✓ Run, jump, and exercise without fear
✓ Go hours without thinking about bathrooms
✓ Sleep through the night without interruptions
✓ Stop wearing pads like you're hiding a secret
✓ Feel confident in social situations again

The transformation:

Week 1-2: You notice small improvements - fewer drips, better control
Week 3-4: You laugh without fear for the first time in months
Week 6-8: You realize you haven't leaked in days. The pads stay in the drawer.

How Much Longer Will You Live Like This?

Another month of wearing pads?
Another month of avoiding sex?
Another month of planning your life around bathrooms?
Another month of shame?

Or...

8 weeks from now, you're leak-free.
8 weeks from now, you last minutes, not seconds.
8 weeks from now, you feel like yourself again.
The choice is yours. The solution is here.

  • STEP 1: LOCATE YOUR PELVIC FLOOR MUSCLES (CRITICAL FIRST STEP)

    Please refer to the FAQ section at the bottom of the page on how to properly locate your pelvic floor muscle.

  • STEP 2: ADJUST YOUR TRAINER FOR YOUR BODY

    Adjust the thigh plate and set the resistance level.

    Turn the dial right to increase resistance and left to decrease.

    We recommend starting low and building up as the weeks progress.

  • STEP 3: POSITION THE TRAINER CORRECTLY

    Seated position is recommended for beginners.
    Once you've mastered the seated position (usually week 4+), you can progress to standing.
    If you're recovering from prostate surgery or have difficulty sitting you can lie on your back with knees bent, feet flat.

  • STEP 4: PERFORM THE EXERCISE WITH PERFECT FORM

    THE SQUEEZE:

    Breathe in naturally

    Engage your pelvic floor muscles

    Gently close your thighs against the trainer as you squeeze your pelvic floor.

    THE HOLD:

    Hold the squeeze for 5 seconds

    Maintain the same intensity throughout the hold

    Keep breathing

    Focus on the pelvic floor lift - imagine pulling those muscles higher with each second.

  • STEP 5: COMPLETE YOUR FULL ROUTINE

    3 SETS of 10 REPS

    5-second holds

    5-second rest between reps

    60-second rest between sets

    Total time: Approximately 5-7 minutes

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What Our Customers Say

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Patrick N

Patrick N

London, UK

I avoided sex for 6 months because I'd finish in under a minute. The shame was destroying my marriage. My wife was patient, but I could see the frustration. After 10 weeks of daily training, I can last 5+ minutes. She's happy. I'm not ashamed anymore. This saved my marriage.

Michael C

Michael C

Boston, MA

After prostate surgery, I dribbled constantly. Pads, urgency, accidents in public. At 58, I felt like my life was over. 12 weeks later, I have 90% control back. I can go out without mapping every bathroom. I feel like myself again.

Iain C

Iain C

Carlsbad, CA

Urgency incontinence controlled my entire day. I'd feel the urge and have maybe 60 seconds to find a bathroom or I'd pee myself. Road trips were nightmares. Flights were impossible. I mapped every bathroom everywhere I went. After 8 weeks of training, I can hold it for 20-30 minutes easily. After 12 weeks, I took a 4-hour flight without panic. Freedom.

Louie C

Louie C

Melbourne, AU

Finishing too fast ruined my confidence with women. I'm talking 30-40 seconds max. I started making excuses - 'too stressed,' 'too tired,' anything to avoid the humiliation. Tried this trainer because pills scared me. 11 weeks later, I'm lasting 4-6 minutes consistently. I don't avoid intimacy anymore. I actually WANT sex again. Game changer.

Richard B

Richard B

Milford, DE

After my prostatectomy, I had ZERO control. Complete incontinence. Diapers, not just pads. At 61, I thought my active life was over. My urologist recommended pelvic floor therapy. I used this trainer religiously - twice daily for 8 weeks. I went from diapers to pads to nothing. 14 weeks post-surgery, I'm 95% continent. I can golf, travel, live normally. I'm so grateful I didn't give up.

Chris L

Chris L

Denver, CO

Premature ejaculation destroyed three relationships before I hit 30. I'd last maybe 45 seconds and the shame was unbearable. I avoided dating for 2 years because of it. Decided to fix this before trying again. 12 weeks of daily training. Now I'm dating someone amazing and I can last 5-8 minutes. She has no idea I ever had a problem. This literally changed my life.

  • "Fixed What My Doctor Couldn't"

    "Two years of leaking during workouts and lasting under a minute in bed. Doctor said "it's aging." Nonsense. Three months with Enduro 2.0 and both problems are gone. I sleep through the night now and my wife is happy again."

    If you're dealing with this, stop waiting. It only gets worse.

    - Mike R, 52 @blasermike
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  • "Should've Done This Years Ago"

    "Was planning my entire life around bathrooms. Avoiding sex because I knew how it would end. Started using this consistently—15 minutes a day. Week 5, everything changed.

    I'm not exaggerating, this gave me my life back. Don't waste another month being miserable."
    - Ross C, 47 @rosscee1256
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  • "My Wife Noticed Before I Did..."

    "Honestly didn't think this would work. Week 6, my wife asked what changed in the bedroom. Week 8, I stopped getting up three times a night to piss.

    I wasted two years being embarrassed when the solution was this simple. You're reading this for a reason—just order it."
    - David K, 55 @david_k14
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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

'How fast is shipping?'

All orders are processed within 1–2 business days.

Once dispatched, delivery typically takes 6–13 business days, depending on your location and local postal services.

We currently ship to the United States, Canada, the United Kingdom, Australia, and New Zealand.

Please note that shipping times may vary slightly during peak periods, holidays, or due to customs clearance in certain regions.

"How do I locate my pelvic floor muscle?"

Here's how to find your pelvic floor muscles correctly:

METHOD 1: The "Stop Peeing" Test

  • Next time you're urinating, try to stop the flow mid-stream
  • The muscles you use to STOP the pee are your pelvic floor muscles
  • Feel that squeeze? That lifting sensation? That's what you're targeting
  • IMPORTANT: Only do this ONCE to identify the muscles - don't make this a regular practice as it can cause bladder issues

METHOD 2: The "Testicle Lift" Method (Men)

  • Stand naked in front of a mirror
  • Without moving your legs, abs, or butt, try to lift your testicles upward
  • You should see them actually rise slightly
  • The muscle creating that lift is your pelvic floor
  • It's the same muscle that tightens when you're trying not to pass gas

METHOD 3: The "Two-Finger Check" (Most Accurate)

  • Lie on your back with knees bent
  • Place two fingers on your perineum (the area between your scrotum and anus)
  • Try to squeeze and lift those muscles WITHOUT clenching your butt
  • You should feel the muscles tighten and lift under your fingers
  • Your stomach should stay relaxed, your butt should stay relaxed, your thighs should stay relaxed

What you're looking for:

  • A squeezing sensation deep inside your pelvis
  • An upward/inward pulling feeling
  • Tightening around your urethra and anus
  • NOT: Butt clenching, thigh squeezing, ab tensing, or holding your breath

Common mistakes men make:
❌ Squeezing their butt cheeks together

❌ Pushing their knees together (inner thigh muscles)

❌ Sucking in their stomach (abs)

❌ Holding their breath

❌ Bearing down (pushing out instead of pulling in)

The correct feeling: A gentle squeeze and lift deep in your pelvis, like you're trying to pull your pelvic organs UP into your body. It's subtle. It shouldn't be dramatic.

Practice this 3-5 times before using the trainer. You need to know what the correct muscle engagement feels like.

"What if I can't commit to doing this every day?"

Here's the reality check you need:

You're already committing time to this problem every single day.

Time spent worrying before you sneeze: 30 seconds

Time planning bathroom locations: 5 minutes

Time avoiding intimacy and making excuses: 10 minutes

Time feeling ashamed and embarrassed: Constant

Total daily time your problem already steals: 15-30 minutes

Time this trainer requires: 5 minutes

You have the time. You're already spending it on the problem. Now spend it on the solution.

And here's the truth: You don't need to be perfect. 5 days a week is better than 0. Progress isn't all-or-nothing.

But if you can't commit 5 minutes a day to fixing something that's ruining your quality of life, then you're choosing to keep living with the shame. And that's a choice only you can make.

"How long until I see results?"

Honest timeline based on 55,000+ customers:

Week 1-2: You'll feel the muscles engaging (many people have never felt these muscles before). Minor improvements in awareness and control.

Week 3-4: Noticeable improvements begin. Fewer leaks, slightly better control during sex, stronger urges before needing the bathroom.

Week 6-8: Significant improvements. Most customers report 50-70% reduction in leaks, lasting 2-3x longer, firmer erections.

Week 10-12: Peak results for most people. 80-90% improvement in symptoms. This is when people say "I feel normal again."

Important: You won't wake up Day 2 and be cured. This is muscle training. It takes consistency.

But every week you'll notice small wins. And small wins add up to life-changing results.

"How is this different from just doing Kegels on my own?"

Three critical differences:

1. You're probably doing them wrong

Without feedback, most people engage their abs, thighs, or glutes instead of their pelvic floor. You're working hard but training the wrong muscles.

2. You have no progressive overload

Just like you wouldn't do the same bicep curl weight forever, your pelvic floor needs increasing resistance to grow stronger. This trainer provides that resistance.

3. You'll actually do it

When you "just do Kegels," you forget, skip days, lose motivation. With a physical device, you have accountability and a routine. You're 4x more likely to stick with it.

Think of it this way: You could do push-ups at home for free. But most people who want results go to a gym with equipment. This is your pelvic floor gym.

"This seems embarrassing to buy."

More embarrassing than wearing pads?

More embarrassing than avoiding intimacy?

More embarrassing than the shame you already carry?

This arrives in discreet packaging. No one knows what's inside. No one needs to know you're fixing this.

Your secret stays your secret.

"What if it doesn't work for me?"

90-Day Money-Back Guarantee

Use it for 12 weeks. Track your progress. If you're not seeing improvement, we refund every penny.

But here's what we know: 82% of users see significant improvement in 8-12 weeks.

The question isn't "what if it doesn't work?"

The question is: "What if this is the solution you've been searching for?"

"I have a medical condition. Is this safe for me?"

Always consult your doctor first if you have:

  • Recent pelvic surgery (within 6 weeks)
  • Active pelvic pain or infection
  • Pelvic organ prolapse (advanced stages)
  • Any condition your doctor has told you restricts pelvic exercise

That said: Pelvic floor training is RECOMMENDED by doctors for:

  • Post-prostatectomy recovery
  • Erectile dysfunction
  • Premature ejaculation
  • Urinary incontinence
  • Overactive bladder
  • Post-childbirth recovery (women)

Many of our customers were referred by their urologists, physical therapists, or primary care doctors. In fact, pelvic floor therapy is considered first-line treatment for these conditions.

When in doubt: Show this product to your doctor and ask, "Would pelvic floor strengthening help my condition?" The answer is almost always yes.